*puts my ipod on shuffle and skips every song until i get one i was hoping for*

How is ''female queerness constantly undermined and invalidated by men''


”she’s just experimenting” ”it’s a phase” ”she’s confused” ”can I watch?” ”can I join?” ”you’re a lesbian? that’s hot” *continues to hit on you*  ”you’re bi? wanna threesome?” ”lesbian sex doesn’t count” ”girls only do it for boys attention” ”she just needs to find the right man” ”I can change your mind” ”if you use dildos that means you really just want dick”




petition to make young adult authors stop writing about girls whose lives change when they meet a boy

When she saw him time slowed to a stop.  He was so perfect and she knew her life would never be the same because she had finally found him.  The one.  The first boy she would ever kill.


No. It's not just you... I mean Journey Blue looks like she'd be so much better for Clara than Danny Pink...


Haha I mean I think it’s a bit early to tell whether Danny will be good for Clara or not although personally I’d much rather see her become romantically involved with Journey Blue.

However in terms of Clara’s story and development I think it would be far better if she ended up falling in love with Journey.

I don’t like the way that, having only established that Twelve is ‘not her boyfriend’ last episode, Clara is immediately jumping into a new relationship with a new man (the implication being that they’re ‘in love’ after just one conversation). The whole of ‘Deep Breath’ was her trying to convince us that she isn’t drawn in by every ‘pretty face’ she sees so having her immediately fall for a handsome man she’s barely exchanged two words with leaves us wondering is Clara just that shallow after all? 

If Clara is going to have a new love interest I really want them to develop a relationship over time. I want her to get to know the person first so that we can see that she sees more to people than charisma and a pretty face.

Journey would be perfect because she’s so different to Eleven and to Clara herself and I think they would balance each other out really well as well. Clara is bubbly and chatty and confident whereas Journey is quieter, more serious and seems to me to be somewhat lacking in confidence. What I loved about Nine and Ten is that they not only took their characters on an adventure but on a journey (no pun intended ha) that helped them to realise just how special they really are.

The show keeps insisting that Clara is a ‘narcissist’ but I think she’s just someone who already knows how special she is. So when characters like Strax and Twelve are constantly putting her down (something that I hate but whatever) she can just brush it off because she knows that they’re wrong. But I think Journey needs that boost of self confidence and Clara is the one who can give it to her. 

Journey needs somebody to make her smile again. She needs someone to show her how special she is. She needs an escape and she needs to be somewhere where she can really help people. 

Clara needs to get over the Doctor. She needs somebody who appreciates her and doesn’t put her down. She needs somebody who can help her get over that hint of internalized biphobia that came through in Asylum of The Daleks (speaking of which if she’s not going to come back then I’m just going to go with the headcanon that she was in somehow the Nina that Oswin talks about and that they were actually in love but Journey/Nina died fighting the Daleks and Oswin was captured and brushed off the relationship as a phase because it was too painful to talk about).

I know it’s never going to happen but if Clara and Journey fell in love in canon I would honestly cry from happiness because this is a Doctor Who I would love to watch (Ladies falling in love with each other through time and space). 


Drunk Michael taking a marker to your face as you’re passed out on the couch at the party only to make kitty whiskers because you’re the only pussy he wants. 


If I reply with “oh” I either don’t give a fuck or I feel like i’ve been punched in the throat